Monday, January 13, 2014

Miracles

Hey family!
We have definitely had some miracles this week!

The most exciting one is a person- Gabriel! It has been such a HUGE blessing to be teaching Gabriel! Gabriel was a former in our area book that we contacted last week and began teaching. He is changing SO quickly and each of our lessons have been so filled with the spirit! He has had a really troubled past and now he can't get enough of the gospel! He came to church and absolutely LOVED it! He said he has never felt so much at home, and the ward can't get enough of him either! When he said the prayer at our last lesson he said "I have never felt this happy before." He came to volleyball on Thursday and our ward mission leader Lans said that on the way back when he was taking him home Gabriel really opened up and told him that he had been thinking about baptism, (we only met him a week ago!) and he had talked to his mom about what she would think if he became a Mormon, and she said she would be fine with it. We went into our lesson on Thursday fully intending to put Gabriel on date, only to find out that he isn't leaving for Texas in February after all- he actually has to leave in about a week and a half. Bummer. Some missionaries in Texas will be getting a golden soon! Hopefully the Lord will reciprocate and send us one too... :)

Juan and Alexandra both came to church again! They are building a lot of bonds with the ward members and I think they are here for good! They are both so wonderful, definitely part of the reason Sister Glancy and I are here. I have really developed a love for less active individuals recently.

Our new investigator this week is Kazim! Kazim is this big black guy from Grenada (close to Jamaica.) He is a little bit sassy. He is a professional swimmer, but doesn't want to come to volleyball because he says that volleyball is for girls...haha

We were unable to have another lesson with James this week because he had a family emergency and had to fly to Florida (Elder Slade probably contacted him while he was there...:) We called James last night and had a good conversation with him. He apologized for being so busy working two jobs and wanted to make sure we knew that he really isn't trying to avoid us, his schedule has just been crazy. He's been reading "that book" and we have a lesson with him on Tuesday so we're hoping he will be progressing even more soon!

We were extremely blessed to find lots of potential investigators this week, so we're hoping and praying that the Lord will continue to bless us and we will have more investigators than ever before next week! We're working so hard! Nothing feels better than reaching the end of a day filled with nothing but tracting and realizing that you gave it your all. Then doing the same thing the next day, and the same thing the next day. This area is making me work harder and become more deeply converted than ever before.

I love this work!!!!!!!! For my study one day this week I read 2 Nephi 4 and compared it to Alma 26. I can't express how grateful I am to have the gospel of Jesus Christ in my life. It fills me with joy absolutely 100% of the time. I have been praying so hard to have my heart completely turned to the Lord, and recently I feel like nothing bothers me at all. Even the days this week that it was pouring rain and we had hours of tracting ahead of us, I couldn't wait to get out there. I just don't get it. How can I suddenly look forward to something so miserable with so much excitement? I know it is because of Jesus Christ, who has overcome the world and gives us every reason to be happy! (John 16:33)
Love, Sister Slade

P.S. Seahawks and Broncos both won!! They're playing each other in the superbowl, I just know it! Don't worry, Sister Glancy and I have become pros and getting door-to-door updates :)

P.P.S. Jesus is a less active individual in our ward who we tried to find last week but had the wrong address and phone number for. We were tracting a complex this week and Sister Glancy saw someone out of the corner of her eye and stopped to talk to them. (Proud mama moment!) Out of the thousands and thousands of people in our area, this individual turned out to be Jesus, getting ready to move to Snohomish 2 days later. He gave us his phone number and new address so that the ward there can contact him. A few days later in ward council one of the ward missionaries, Esther, asked, "Does anybody happen to know someone named Jesus _____? I had a really weird dream last night where someone called me and asked 'Do you know where I can find Jesus _____' I woke up instantly, but I have no idea who Jesus is." In case any of you were wondering if Heavenly Father cares about us on an individual basis...


P.P.S. Do you remember Yassine, the Muslim who we started teaching? Well Esther, like the solid member fellowshipper that she is, introduced him to her best friend in the Silver Lake YSA ward, they hit it off instantly, and they've been dating the last few weeks. The Lord works in mysterious ways I suppose... :)

Pedicures on New Years
 The sun came out, its a miracle!
 New year new fresh cut.
 Lots and lots of wind and rain here lately, guess I need a new umbrella.

Harvesting

I'm doing great. Elder Winslow is really a great companion, and we have been getting much closer together than ever before this last week. We have been closer in unity, and we have been talking more than we used to as well. We are very glad to be working in both a ward and a branch - it allows us to have more opportunities to get our investigators to church, and we get double the spiritual boost each Sunday. And in the Branch, we get to know the members much more, and much better than in the ward before it split.

We decided that I don't know my area well enough, in case Elder Winslow transfers out, and I stay. So this week I am taking over driving in order to know it better. It's really scary for me, because I've never really driven in a busy city before, and I'm still nervous from my accident a while before I left on my mission.

In the Book of Mormon and the other scriptures, I have been studying the last few chapters of Jesus' visit. I have also been studying specifically looking for symbolism and deeper meanings, and my companion and I have made it a point to study for at least one of the investigators/members we'll be seeing each day.

Last Tuesday (or was it Wednesday?), we had a really neat experience with harvesting. We started saying the prayer at the door of the house, because they didn't want to wake up anybody else; we finished, and they invited us in to say another prayer with the whole family. We prayed, and we invited them to be baptized. One of the family members accepted immediately. She told us that she had wanted to get baptized in Haiti, but she was too young and her parents didn't want her to. After she moved here, she couldn't find the church again, but she still wanted to get baptized. It was an amazing experience!

In other news, my companion and I had to call 911 for someone. It was a member, Frè Tony, an older Haitian who got in a car accident. (You're not the only one, Paul!) We came to his house to pick him up, found out that he had been in the accident that morning and that he was in a lot of pain. We gave him a blessing and called 911. The lady asked us if we wanted police or rescue. We said "rescue." They sent a fire truck. :D Luckily, it didn't end up being life threatening. He's fine, he's just in a lot of pain.

I love you all! Thank you all for your letters of encouragement and support!

Thanks,

Eldè Slade

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Half Chinese

Hello, World!

I don't have a lot of time to email right now, so I'll make it quick.

This last week, I went on an exchange with Elder Tesch, my district leader, in his area. We harvest blessed for the entire day, because all of the appointments fell through. I didn't get to sit in on a Spanish lesson, but it was still good. We found some cool people. The second to last blessing we had was a person who cried after we said the prayer. That has never happened to me before. I was reminded again that we really can't do anything if the spirit is not there. The people have to feel the spirit, or else they won't ever change, and they won't ever repent. She agreed to be baptized on the 12th. I don't know what happened to her after that. Too bad we had to pass her.

Elder Winslow and I also had a great experience with harvesting this last Saturday. It wasn't an individual blessing, it was the experience as a whole. It was as if we couldn't walk ten steps without someone coming up to us and wanting to talk to us. For example, we gave out a card to someone who passed us because we were already talking to someone else; he walked a few steps, looking at the card, and then he stopped and waited for us to finish. He asked us about the DVD on the back of the card. We promised we would get him one. We ran back to our car to retrieve it, ran back, and gave it to him. We invited him to watch it and to come to church. On our way back to the car, we gave out another card to another man; he asked us to give another one to his son, and pointed out his house. We went over there and harvest blessed them. It was another blessing that was really spiritually powerful. I know that those experiences came because God prepared the people there and we did our best to follow the spirit to know where to go.

I am currently reading in the chapters in 3 Nephi where Christ talks to the people in America. One thing I learned just recently from reading them is in relation to lower/higher laws. The law of Moses was a lower law, given to the people because they were not ready to receive the higher law; and also because Christ had not yet come to atone for us. After he came, he established a higher law. It's not that the law of Moses was a bad thing; it was just a lower law. One thing I realized while reading these chapters is that this could be a symbol as well for the laws of Justice and Mercy. It's not that justice is a bad thing - on the contrary. It's just that there's a higher law.

Someone I met yesterday tried to tell me that I look like a mix between Chinese and white. He said I look Chinese because of my eyes. I told him that I didn't know what race I was, my ancestors are so diverse, but that that was the first time someone's tried to tell me that I'm half Chinese.

I can't believe how different each person is. I meet so many new people each day, and I try to get to know them in order to show my love for them. There are so many types of people. All of them are crazy.

The ward split just barely. Yesterday was the first day that the ward and the branch met separately. I had six hours of church. It was exhausting.

I'm just about out of time again, unfortunately.

Thanks,

Eldè Slade

So blessed!

Hey family!

We have had a very blessed week this week! I couldn't decide what to fast for yesterday since we had already had so many tender mercies this week, so Sister Glancy and I settled for a "gratitude fast." :)

We found 3 new investigators this week!!! One of them is James, the guy who showed up to church out of nowhere two weeks ago. We had our first lesson with him, and it went really well. He said the closing prayers and if you can picture his way southern accent said "Thank ya for sendin me the good book of the mormons. And thank ya for the missionaries knockin on ma door. I took it as ma callin to come back. " Unfortunately James didn't come to church yesterday even though he said that he was going to, and he hasn't replied to our text, so we're hoping everything is alright there. Keep him in your prayers!

Another new investigator is Cornell. Cornell is a way chill African American guy who just got back from deployment. We all sat in a circle on his living room floor since he doesn't have any furniture yet, and it was a powerful restoration lesson! He seems very agreeable and open to everything so now we just have to see if he is willing to keep commitments!

We also contacted a former from our area book named Gabriel. Gabe is a little bit of a punk. At least he acts that way, but he definitely doesn't fool me, he's got a soft interior  Gabe just passed his GED and is joining the Navy, so he is moving to Texas in a few weeks. We're hoping that our lessons before then will be filled with the spirit so that he will want to continue his investigation when he moves there.

Miracle time! On Saturday we had planned to spent most of the afternoon and evening in Everett, which is where Ram lives. I'm not sure if you remember Ram, but he's an Indian investigator that the elders passed off to us when we first got here. We've struggled to keep frequent contact with Ram in recent weeks, and we've struggled to feel like we're really reaching him, especially since we're not sure just how much of a language barrier is there. Last week we were going to stop by one more time and Sister Glancy and I were debating about weather or not we should move him to formers if he wasn't there. Ram's parents answered the door and invited us in immediately.The mom, Avathar, told us over and over again that she needed us to help Ram, as he has had some Word of Wisdom issues that have been causing grief for their family. We took that as our answer that we shouldn't give up hope on Ram just yet. Well anyways, on Saturday we got a call out of the blue from Ram saying "My mom wants me to tell you that I am home for you to come see me." We really believe that Avathar was moved by the spirit to contact us, because we went to talk to Ram and for the first time Ram really opened up to us. Avathar sat us down and said in her thick Indian accent, "He is your younger brother. You are his elder sisters. Please, help him." We were so stunned (and the Elders too when they found out) to learn that Ram actually is not YSA. He left a wife and 8 month old baby in India when he and his family came here, and he's not sure when he will see them again. He's suffered a lot of depression recently, which is why he has felt lonely and turned to smoking and marijuana to try to find happiness. He showed us pictures of his family, and the minute i saw the picture of his beautiful wife and little girl, the spirit filled me instantly. it was like Heavenly Father was allowing me to be in Ram's shoes, and I could feel just how much love ram has for his family. We shared our love and our testimonies of our Heavenly Father's love with Ram and Avathar, and it was one of the most powerful moments I have experienced since coming to this area.

For my study the last few weeks I have started the Book of Mormon over, but I have started with a blank copy of the Book of Mormon and I have been marking all of the promises find. I just finished 1 Nephi today. Some of these promises are conditional. For example, 1 Nephi 16:28- through faith and diligence (and also action- Nephi is a great example of ACTING, rather than being acted upon) we will receive personal revelation and guidance. Other promises I have found are not conditional, they are simply given to us because we have a Heavenly Father and Savior who love us. (1 Nephi 21:16- I think about how often we use our hands. Jesus Christ has a constant reminder of His love for us on his hands. How often does He look at His hands, and think about you and about me?)

Love ya!

Sister Slade

P.S. Sister Anderson just sent me an email- apparently Sandra showed up to church yesterday in Oak Harbor!!!! They have an appointment with her on Thursday. I sent her a long letter about 2 weeks ago. Please keep her in your prayers!!!

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Jwaye Nwel! (Joyous Christmas!)

I had a great time talking to my family. It was great to see them again, after 3.25 months (Dec. 25 - Sep. 17 ~= 3.25 months). My mission is going by so fast. We've already had one mission conference; I'm about halfway through my second transfer in-field; there are only two days left in my first year on my mission!

This week in my study of the Book of Mormon, I've been nearing 3 Nephi 11. The suspense is killing me, but I've still got a few days to go before I'm there. One thing that I learned is that secret combinations are bad. I've said it before, but this time I'm actually applying it to myself. The point of secret combinations is to hide your own evil works and to get out of punishment for them. With that definition, it's not just knives in the dark that count as secret combinations, it's any time you undertake to cover your own sins. Secret combinations always detract from your own agency, and infringe on the agency of others. And "when we undertake to cover our sins, [...] in any degree of unrighteousness, behold, the heavens withdraw themselves; the spirit of the Lord is grieved, and when it is withdrawn, Amen to [our] priesthood or authority".

On Christmas Eve, we were harvesting in the morning, and we had a miracle. We found someone who was hesitant to be baptized; she had already been baptized, and she didn't feel like she needed to again. But she decided to come to church. When we told her it was called "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints," she opened up and told us a story of how a couple days ago, she had been invited to the same church by Cash Monestine (an RM - returned 2 weeks ago, leaving for college this week) and she said she thought it was a funny coincidence. We testified that it was not a coincidence, and that it really is Christ's church, and God was giving her a second opportunity to accept the invitation. It was an great experience.

Last Saturday, we were having a terrible day. We were driving down extremely far south for the day, because we had an investigator to see and a potential investigator to follow up with. We drove down with our member; it turned out that the potential investigator gave us a fake address; we decided to harvest until our appointment with the investigator. Then the member said that he had to be home before the appointment could start. We tried to call and reschedule with our investigator, but she said she couldn't get there earlier; so we drove back north again to drop off our member. We proceeded to look for another member to take out with us for half an hour, last minute, but nobody could come. So we drove back south to get a non-member-present lesson with her, and it turns out she had to cancel on us because she was being held up. So just like that, we wasted 5 hours and 50 miles without anything to show for it. We still hadn't eaten or harvested for an hour. We only had time to do one or the other before we had more appointments, so we chose to sacrifice in order to be exactly obedient. That's when the day started turning around, and we started seeing miracles. We had three very amazing harvest blessings, and for the rest of the night we had three amazing member present lessons, and three new investigators. What's funny is that none of the three lessons we had were with the people we had scheduled to see. I firmly believe that none of this would have happened if we had not chosen to be exactly obedient. It was a very humbling experience, and it may have been the best two hours I've had on my mission so far.

We're going to be doing an exchange some time this week, but we don't know when or any of the details.

Thanks for everything!

Eldè Slade

Some Christmas lights both of my companion and I.

 I'm practicing my Haitian pose. I need to work on my frown a bit, it's too much like a smile. (Part of their culture is that they don't smile in photos. At least, the Haitians that aren't too Americanized.)

Miracle of the Week!

It was so nice to talk to you guys on Christmas! I feel like it was just a teaser- there is so much more we could have talked about and the time went so fast! Oh well. Next time we talk it will be mothers day, then after that we'll be talking in person after I finish my mission!

I've been sick the last few days so that has been absolutely horrible. We've still been able to go out and work, but we haven't slept well and both Sister Glancy and I feel totally wiped out. Hopefully we can get some good sleep later today if we have time. Dave and Marg sent me some money and a Christmas card, and I think we're going to use it to go get pedicures later today!

A less active named Alexandra came to church on Sunday! We've decided to have our less actives begin fellowshipping our less actives, so we took her to our lesson with Juan and had sort of a joint teaching appointment, and what do you know, she was at church! So that was exciting.

Unfortunately we weren't able to meet with James, but hopefully this coming Tuesday. Our return appointment with Keith fell through as well, so hopefully we will be able to contact him again. Member missionary work really is the way to go. We found out about transfer calls today and both Elder Combe and Elder Caruso are staying, so we are really excited about some training we are going to be doing with the ward in the next few weeks! The format that Elder Caruso came up with is a "Mini MTC" with break-out sessions and a ward pizza party at the end. I will be teaching the break-out session on "setting goals and making plans" and we are using the rest of our ward activities budget to buy copies of "The Power of Everyday Missionaries" to give to each person in the ward. (If you have not read that book then you need to get a copy!!!!) The stake president and President Bonham will be attending, so we're hoping to make this a successful event!

Miracle of the week! We were in the apartment complex that Alvaro lives in (One of the less actives/ recent converts we've been working with) and we decided to stop by even though we were pretty sure he would be working, in hopes that one of his older brothers would answer the door (Missionaries are sneaky that way :)) Well Alvaro's brother Chudokan answered! We had sort of a mini restoration lesson there on the doorstep, but Chudokan was hesitant to set up a time to meet and talk some more, even to join one of our lessons with Alvaro, so we weren't sure how interested he was. The next day we met Alvaro for a lesson at McD's and apparently Chudokan told Alvaro we had stopped by and was asking him questions, including if he could read "that book that you have." We role played with Alvaro and he is going to invite his brother to meet with us!!!

Fun fact for ya- we learned from a high councilman that we ran into this week that apparently 90% of the people baptized in many of the Seattle Mission YSA wards are from China. There are a few in our ward that were recently baptized, so the Elders have organized a mandarin sunday school class with one of the RM's that served his mission in Taiwan, while Sister Glancy and I attend the Gospel Principles class.

Love y'all! Don't forget to keep me updated on all of your amazing missionary experiences are going!

Sister Slade

Monday, December 30, 2013

Christmas!

Dear Family

This week while I was studying the Book of Mormon, I started making a list of ways that faith is strengthened - my own, and my investigators. The list is still in progress so I'm not going to share it. Also, in reading the scriptures, I've tried to apply them to myself so that I can know how to become a better missionary. Some of the things I've noticed are that we need to teach with meekness; and in D&C there's a scripture that asks something along the lines of "why will you continue to be blind guides" that I found by accident. I have scripture references that were meaningful written down, but they are not with me at the moment.

Yesterday, during companionship study we were studying chapter 11 and we both had a very revelatory experience. We both realized that PMG says pretty clearly that we should leave almost no conversations with anybody without inviting them to do something to come unto Christ. So we have committed ourselves for this week to do that with everybody we talk to, with the exception of other missionaries. We feel like this commitment was inspired of God and that he was guiding our studies through the spirit. It was a very meaningful study all in all. My relationship with my companion is getting much better. (Not that it was ever bad, it was just not as good.) I feel that that is the main reason the study was so great.

Thanks for the 12 days of Christmas gifts! We were able to guess all of them so far except for the pictures of Nathan and Mom and Dad, the hot chocolate, the jam/jelly, and the nativity set.

We used bikes a ton today. It was fun, I'm getting much more used to it, but it was also very physically exhausting. But we got back on track with our miles, so that means this week we'll be able to use our car more.

I don't have much time to email today so that's where I'll end.

Thanks,

Elder Slade