Monday, September 23, 2024

We hit the Sunday matinee

 (Elder Mackrory)

Bom dia amados amigos e familiares! Essa semana foi novamente cheia se aprendizado e fuscas. Vimos 20, totalizando 931.

Firstly, I'd like to apologize for the lack of updates in my last email. This ones a long one to make up for last week. On pday we went to arraial, a nearby tourist town. We did a little hike and went to the beach. Lots of travel and left little time to write. But it was super cool and had beautiful beaches and bays.

Notable things that happened last week:

-had district council on Friday due to interviews on the same day

-had district conference, where we became a ward. Kind of. The whole process of what actually happens is complicated. We're part of a different stake now and the district to which we belonged no longer exists. We are now a group of a ward instead of an independent branch. Some people see all of this as a step back because usually branches are created to become wards because of rapid growth. But the church here is not growing super fast, so it's better that we have less units, and more united units. Lots of drama with members here but it's OK we're working on that.

Alright. This week,

On Tuesday I had a division with the goated Elder Erekson. He's super chill and a hard worker. Rare combo, but it's lit. We also had district council and Elder Flores and I gave a really cool training on the Book of Mormon. I learned a lot and felt the spirit.

On Wednesday we had a really cool lesson with my favorite Argentine family. They all have testimonies really strong about the Book of Mormon and are motivated to learn more and keep on the progression toward baptism.

Thursday we had lunch with some members who usually just send us money. Super great lunch, amazing. But the thing that was cool was the fact that this dude has a sword. He was part of the navy, and so it's more of a decorative and ceremonial sword, so it isn't sharp, but it's still really cool.

On Friday a miracle happened. Elder César, previously known as Mariano, gave us a reference just as he left for the CTM. It's Brazilian custom to make decorative goodbyes, quoting scripture and pronounce fancy blessings. It's cool actually. When he was saying goodbye to this family and they quoted a scripture from Alma. Elder César was like “wait a minute, from where do you know that?” And they were like “oh these two young men showed up at my house and left this book with me like 8 months ago”. So Elder César hits us up and says “yo there's this family that wants to be taught but doesn't know how to find you guys” and so we look them up, and sure enough, 8 months ago this family was taught and then for some reason the missionaries stopped teaching them. I get in contact with the missionaries who taught them, and find out that the last lesson with them, the pastor of the local church was there and stayed chill during the lesson, but talked all sorts of crap and nonsense and the family asked that the missionaries stop coming. That the missionaries did, but when we texted them on Friday, they were overjoyed to mark with us. That night we visited them and they explained the whole story from their perspective. The pastor did say all sorts of crap to stop the missionaries then, but it also backfired on him because the family said that they felt so bad about what he said that they stopped going to his church. The only reason they didn't ask for the missionaries back is because they were embarrassed. But they kept reading the book of Mormon as a family, praying, and living the standards the missionaries had taught. We didn't teach them much this night, it was more to get to know them and what they need, but I was shocked at one thing. Yes their story is unique and unexpected, but that wasn't what grabbed my attention. I'll give some background.

For those reading this who aren't members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, something that is interesting about us is that we can recognize each other with somewhere around 75% accuracy. Put two members of the church who don't know each other at a party, and it's a good bet that by the end of the party they've found each other and became friends. Some can say that it's because we have similar diets and therefore we generally look similar, but I believe that it's something more than physical appearance. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints puts a large emphasis on acting in a Christlike way. We try to act as Christ would act. It's not to say that no other denomination does this, but that the way we define “Christlike” is uniformly understood by members of the church. Our behavior contains minute mannerisms and ways of talking and interacting that gives off a “light” of sorts that we recognize in ourselves and others.

Alright, background over. This family is unique. Why did they leave me shocked? They have “cara de membro”. I thought “Wow, they look like members of the church”. Their dedication to the things the missionaries taught is unlike any I've seen. They live the principles of the gospel with such an exactness that their countenances shone. They emphasize personal study of the scriptures and unity in the family, some of the church's principle teachings.

Saturday. Ready for this? We were able to remark with this marvelous family for Saturday and when we showed up, we got straight to the point. Next month, if everything goes right, all four of them will be baptized. The date we set looks a little early, but it's possible, and we'll be doing everything we can to make it happen. I have nothing to do but this work and to thank God for the care He has shown this family and the opportunity He has given me to be a part of their spiritual journey.

Sunday. Ready for this again? So actually this family had some trouble coming to church (actually valid reasons for not coming). But this day was nonetheless very interesting and unexpected. We had church in the afternoon for some reason. We thought it was because our newly called bishop was gonna make tons of callings and had to also be present at another meeting, but then no one was called. I gave a talk (18 hour notice). I was told 15 minutes and got to pulpit with 30 minutes to fill, being the last speaker. To my surprise, I did it. Pro-tip: quote so many scriptures that you only end up having to speak for half the time. Don't just explain the doctrine, Bear testimony of every principle. Do these things and your talk in church will be much easier to give. Right after church, a member I didn't know, but that apparently attends the neighboring congregation, asked us if we had any lessons in the evening. We had one, so we invited him to participate. Not sure if this was a mistake or not. He gave us a ride to his house, we had cake and talked about our plans for the lesson. He told him that the intent of the lesson was to reinforce was has already been taught because it had been a while. He said “OK, sounds great. I have a system that worked great on my mission for teaching this”. So I asked “great! What is it?” He said “you're gonna love it”. Again, I asked “I bet! How does it work?” “It's gonna be great. You guys will baptize so much with this system”. So basically he wouldn't tell us his plan no matter how many ways I invented to ask the same question. So I'm worried a bit, but we're in too deep to say “we’ll take it from here, thanks anyways”. Like come on! We're eating cake at his house and then say “nah we're good”. So we're just gonna bite our tongue and hope his system is as good as he says. We get to the lesson and he pulls out his laptop and started to present the lesson he prepared alone. He started of great, quoting scriptures and giving simple truths. But it was clear he did not want our help. But the friend were teaching is eating it up, so we're OK with it. As the lesson continues, I realize that his system so special is just the same system we use with more words. Oversimplified and overcomplicated at the same time. I managed to fit a few words in here and there, but this dude did not ever look like he was finishing soon. After about an hour and a bit, he goes “and that's It. Any questions?” “nope, I understood everything” responded our friend. So definitely our friend has questions and understood very little. We left the lesson in awe. This man, alone, took 75 minutes to teach what we get done in 15 minutes. The missionaries did not teach a lesson with a member participating. The member taught a lesson with the missionaries participating. Exhausting. Guys, if you're ever accompanying the missionaries, just follow what they say and bear simple testimony. Let them do the teaching. Maybe you served a mission before, but they're serving now and have the systems that have been refined so much since you were in the field. Don't worry, our friend sent us a message this morning saying he loved the visit and wants to mark again, but we will definitely have to answer a million questions and revisit every principle we covered. Rant finished. Cake was really good though. That's a win.

That's it this week. Hope everyone enjoyed this roller-coaster of an email.

Tender mercy: Honestly the message our friend sent us this morning. I lost a bit of sleep worrying that he wouldn't want us back. He has such a desire to know the truth and has such a strong testimony of the Book of Mormon. I'm at ease now. Questions I can handle. Actually enjoy killing doubt because when doubt is quenched, what comes in its place? Faith and understanding, some of my favorite things.

Spiritual thought: when the Savior comes again, He will call His elect. According to His Word, the elect are those who believe in Him and hearken to His voice. Let us all say as Samuel of old, “Speak, Thy servant heareth” Let us with joy and exactness follow His commands. In this there is safety and peace. This week, seek the Lord’s voice in study and prayer. Seek to know how you can more exactly keep His commandments and repent of your shortcomings. In this there is joy. Not as the world giveth, but as He gives, eternally. Hearken to His voice, and watch your life be free of all worries about the future and past. Watch your problems disappear. Not because they stop existing, but because they stop being problems; they become opportunities to learn, grow, and teach. Go now, and fulfill His commandments. In conclusion, Fear God, and keep His commandments. This is the whole duty of each man, woman, and child.

Fotos: there will be a second email because there's a dumb limit on the total size of files I can send on one email.

1. Que bicho

2. Sword

3. Tereré, my new favorite drink (did you know this kind of straw is called a bomb? Looks like I'm gonna bring a bomb to the airport in a little less than a year)

4. My teaching area

5. Arraial pday

6. Flower

7. Horse

8. Don't share this foto. CV is the biggest gang in Rio.

9. Meme

10. I'm dengue's worst enemy (killed like 15 mostquitos in a row)

11. Pineapple after a long day goes hard

12. Dog














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